Jared “Psych” Laurence


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“Jared helped me during a time when I was at my lowest.

Without getting all emotional, I don’t know where I’d be today without him.

I’m always improving and getting better still but because of his teachings I’m confident I can achieve anything when it comes to dating”

Mark Keyes

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Leverage Podcast

By Robbie Kramer

  • Modern Flirting’s #1 method for creating attraction? 1:00
  • A tip to rapidly speed up your learning process and get faster results on your journey to improve your love life 8:05
  • What to do if you run out of shit to say… 17:46
  • The secret to the social life, work life balance dilemma… 31:38
  • What to do if your work life starts suffering… 40:32
  • The secret for finding the sweet spot between too little and too much energy… 66:51



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The Ten Commandments of

Handling Indifference

  • Prevention vs. Intervention
  • Understanding her frame
  • Why you need comfort before you can build attraction
  • Using cold-reading to open her up
  • Making friends with her more receptive friend
  • Playing with social obligation
  • Being un-reactive and outcome independent
  • Building intrigue
  • Is the juice worth the squeeze?

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Qualification &


  • Learn that if you don’t show interest, you’re just an entertainer to her
  • How to not be a wimp or a creep
  • how to find that perfect balance between confidence, forwardness, ambiguousness and social understanding the she finds irresistable
  • Attraction is not over until it’s mutual
  • How to qualify her, “I like you, because…”
  • How to actually build real relationships and not just trashy one-night stands

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Clients Testimonials

John Tomas

It's hard as a guy admitting you need help, it felt like there was something wrong with me. Jared went above and beyond to show me that he knew exactly what I was going through. He listens and breaks things down in a way that truly show his heart is into helping people. Can't recommend him enough for those who value someone who is truly genuine and passionate about what they do.

Trisha Somerstein

Before taking training with Jared I constantly kept falling for the wrong guys. I rolled my eyes when my friend recommended him to me but figured worth a shot. Since then I've come to love and appreciate myself in a way I didn't know possible. The confidence you get when you truly know how men think and feel prepared for any situation is indescribable. These days I'm currently in a wonderful relationship and stopped second guessing myself about everything. From one bad ass bitch to another, you won't regret this!

Nivv Oudit

I've always been introverted and quite shy with women. My entire life was dedicated to getting good grades and performing well at work. When I began working with Jared what amazed me most was how well he could relate to me. I thought good looking white guys would never understand my hardships but he proved me wrong! The stuff he taught me wasn't generic "feel good" information. He was able to break this down into a science and show me exactly how to do some of the most basic things. Whether it was holding a conversation or taking things to the next step, he always had an answer. I mainly liked how practical and thought out everything is, these tips can be put to use immediately. Thank you Jared!

Ashley Ageloff

By far the best decision I ever made in my life! From our first call it was obvious how much Jared cares and the dedication he has to making sure I reach my goals. Using suggestions from Jared, and pushing myself more than I was used to, I met the man of my dreams and now I'm married. I still can't believe it! I've seen some of the other people out there giving advice and in my opinion no one even comes close to Jared. So thankful I found him, just wish it would have been sooner.

Brian Howie

Jared is as eloquent, passionate, informative, empowering, self-aware, entertaining, and insightful as they come. He understands what makes men tick, what women want, and what all of us really need on our journey to find love, connection, and happiness.

If you’re not having fun, you’re doing it wrong.

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