At Modern Flirting Our Goal Is To Provide Men And Women With The Skills And Confidence To Build Attraction, Grow Tight Social Circles, And Have The Dating And Relationship Life They Desire


The "Be Yourself" Problem

You’ve gone on one bad date after another (or can’t even get any!) and think it’s time to give up on your love life.

I don’t blame you! The rejections, disappointments, questioning yourself…it’s emotionally draining. All while trying to just “be yourself.”

What if the dating world had invisible but understandable rules? What if you could know exactly what to say and do to be your BEST self? What if I could show you a totally new approach to love and dating?

Imagine a life being able to meet anyone you are attracted to. Having fun and meaningful conversations and interactions, exciting weekends full of dates, and the choice to date whoever you want.

Our founder Jared “Psych” Laurence is a dating mentor and relationship expert who has given speeches and instructed students from Los Angeles to Hong Kong and everywhere in between.

He and his team will show you, step by step, exactly how to live the life you’ve always wanted. By using powerful dating skills there are simple, ethical techniques you can follow to become more attractive on every level and understand the opposite sex.

If you are bored with swiping on online dating, want the rejections and disappointments to end, are fed up with being alone while all your friends are on dates, you have to know there is finally something you can do about it.

We know you may have never thought about working with a modern dating mentor; it may even sound bizarre and strange. We challenge you, not to take our word for it, but to see for yourself how well this works. Life will never be the same.


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You've waited and over analyzed long enough. Do you think tomorrow will get better all on it's own?

I have nothing but the utmost respect for people bold enough to take massive action and change their lives.

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Access to a global community of men and women who are just like you. More than anything though, have your goals realized.

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Clients Testimonials

John TomasThis guy cares

It's hard as a guy admitting you need help, it felt like there was something wrong with me. Jared went above and beyond to show me that he knew exactly what I was going through. He listens and breaks things down in a way that truly show his heart is into helping people. Can't recommend him enough for those who value someone who is truly genuine and passionate about what they do.

Trisha SomersteinI don't recognize myself!

Before taking training with Modern Flirting I constantly kept falling for the wrong guys. I rolled my eyes when my friend recommended him to me but figured worth a shot. Since then I've come to love and appreciate myself in a way I didn't know possible. The confidence you get when you truly know how men think and feel prepared for any situation is indescribable. These days I'm currently in a wonderful relationship and stopped second guessing myself about everything. From one bad ass bitch to another, you won't regret this!

Shawn OPriceless Information

I've always been introverted and quite shy with women. My entire life was dedicated to getting good grades and performing well at work. When I began working with Jared what amazed me most was how well he could relate to me. I thought good looking white guys would never understand my hardships but he proved me wrong! The stuff he taught me wasn't generic "feel good" information. He was able to break this down into a science and show me exactly how to do some of the most basic things. Whether it was holding a conversation or taking things to the next step, he always had an answer. I mainly liked how practical and thought out everything is, these tips can be put to use immediately. Thank you Jared!

Ashley AgeloffMarried!

By far the best decision I ever made in my life! From our first call it was obvious how much Jared cares and the dedication he has to making sure I reach my goals. Using suggestions from the Modern Flirting team, and pushing myself more than I was used to, I met the man of my dreams and now I'm married. I still can't believe it! I've seen some of the other people out there giving advice and in my opinion no one even comes close to Jared. So thankful I found him, just wish it would have been sooner.

Brian HowieGreat Love Debate

Jared is as eloquent, passionate, informative, empowering, self-aware, entertaining, and insightful as they come. He understands what makes men tick, what women want, and what all of us really need on our journey to find love, connection, and happiness.

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